Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Dream New Dreams - Pausch



Jai (said Jay) Pausch, the wife of a Carnegie Mellon University professor and mother of three, was thrust unwillingly into the spotlight when her husband, Randy, was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.  Rather than sit back and complain, however, in a fashion true to himself, Randy Pausch moved forward with what was left of his life and fought.  But despite doctor's efforts, the cancer metastasized and spread to other organs. There was no hope left.

He then agreed to give what he referred to as his "last lecture" at his school... And, it went viral. What was supposed to be an unassuming last talk turned into an overnight sensation, a book (also entitled The Last Lecture), offers to appear on national television with the likes of Diane Sawyer and Oprah Winfrey, and even the opportunity to speak before Congress about cancer funding.

While these events occurred, and through to Randy's eventual death, Jai Pausch stood by his side, served as his caregiver, and figured out how to survive the loss for both herself and her children.

Her book, Dream New Dreams, offers her point of view of the events, as well as an update as to how her life has changed and evolved since her terrible loss. She talks of her efforts to continue Randy's anti-cancer efforts and to rebuild a life that no longer fulfilled her "dream" of growing old with her husband and children.  She also talks in depth about the role of caregiver for someone suffering from illnesses like cancer and how she managed the challenges, while learning (not always the easy way) to take care of herself as well.

I very much enjoyed this book. As many were, I was very touched by Randy Pausch and his story. I was just as touched by Jai's story and how she has managed to deal with her loss and hurt, while caring for her children, reestablishing a life and accepting new dreams. A touching memoir and a good read, particularly for someone dealing with similar issues of loss or illness.


4/5- Great. Push it on your friends and family.

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Tuesday Tunes - 08/27/13




A great lyric is like a great book...



 
Copperline
James Taylor, Artist
James Taylor and Reynolds Price, Writers





Even the old folks never knew
Why the call it like we do
I was wondering since the age of two
Down on Copperline

Copper head, copper beech

Copper kettle, sitting side by each
Copper coil, cup o’ Georgia peach
Down on Copperline

Half a mile down to Morgan Creek
I'm only living until the end of the week
Hercules and a hog-nosed snake
Take me down on Copperline

Warm summer night on the Copperline
Slip away past supper time
Wood smoke and moonshine, yeah
Down on Copperline

One time I saw my daddy dance
Watched him moving like a man in a trance
He brought it back from the war in France
Down onto the Copperline

Branch water and tomato wine
Creosote and turpentine
Sour mash and new moon shine
Down on Copperline
Take me down on Copperline

First kiss ever I took
Stole a page from a romance book
The sky opened and the earth shook
Down on Copperline

Took a fall from a windy height
I only knew how to hold on tight
And pray for love enough to last all night
Down on Copperline

Day breaks and the boy wakes up
And the dog barks and the bird sings
And the sap rises and the angels sigh, yeah...

I tried to go back, as if I could
All spec house and plywood
Tore up, and tore up good
Down on Copperline

It doesn’t come as a surprise to me
Never touch my memory
Well I’m lifting up and rising free
Down on Copperline

Half a mile down to Morgan Creek
I’m only living til the end of the week
Hercules and a hog-nosed snake
Down on Copperline
Take me down (we were) on Copperline...
Oh, down on Copperline.
Take me back down on Copperline.
Take me down on Copperline.

Monday, August 26, 2013

Friday, August 23, 2013

ASOL #3 - 08/23/13

Why does everyone else's lives seem so much more interesting than your own? Now that I've initiated this post, I can not for the life of me think of anything to say...

The past couple of weeks at work, they have been removing some older asbestos tile floors and recarpeting. This has been an ongoing project in our building, a little each year. This year they jumped in and finished multiple floors, including the one above me.

The office above mine, of course, ended up being the trouble spot... Lots of banging and scraping. Eventually, I moved to another room to work as I was a little concerned about the dust falling down. I'm really hoping it was just dust from the drop ceiling!  Ha, ha... It should be finished soon (early next week) and the office owners moved back in.

And then the students come back in just a few weeks... I'm already having to adjust my driving to the obvious "out-of-staters" (read this... "Uh, I'm not really sure where I'm going...I'll just stop here in the middle of the road and look at my campus map to see if I can figure out if I'm going the right direction..." Ugh!

I am a Boston driver ya'll, I've got places to be and people to see!

Get the heck out of my way!!!

:)






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Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Are You Gonna Kiss Me or Not? - Thompson Square



*This book was an advanced reading copy sent to me, free of charge, for my honest review and opinion.  All comments in this review are the honest opinion of the blogger.


It's no surprise that I am a country music fan, just check out my Tuesday Tunes. I'm a reader, through and through, and country music is really good at creating stories, so I love it.

I was really excited, therefore, when I got the opportunity to review Are You Gonna Kiss Me or Not? by Thompson Square - a popular country music wife/husband duo, who's big hit is a song of the same title.

Daniel, a rocker teen turned rocker adult, is second guessing his (minimally successful) efforts to make his way in the music business. His high school sweetheart, Casey, is an intelligent, good girl with bad taste in men who dreamed of being a poet. The book skips back and forth from memories of their younger years to present day.  In high school, the two pair up to write a song together at a teacher's suggestion and eventually fall in love (after obligatory dislike of one another). The relationship doesn't last, because Daniel sees himself as big-dreams, little promise and wants Casey to have all the opportunities she deserves. Eventually, they have to work through their fears and hurt feelings to end up together

...blah, blah, blah. Been there, read that.

Music, unrequited love...  I really expected to like this book.  The writing is good (though the banter between the two-supposed teens is hard to follow at times and unrealistic) and I was even sort of invested in the characters. I just wasn't invested enough to buy the formulaic, cheesy plot. At one point I thought, "Maybe the book was written for fifteen year old Taylor Swift fans...?!"  It doesn't really read like a young adult novel though, but perhaps I'm wrong.

I wanted to like this book. I really, really did!  Sadly, I was left unimpressed.


2/5- Just okay.  Choose with extreme prejudice.


 


Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Tuesday Tunes - 08/20/13






A great lyric is like a great book...


I Guess You Had To Be There
Lorrie Morgan, Artist
Jon Robbin, Barbara Cloyd, Writers






Hello, honey, how was your day?
Well, you're sure in a good mood tonight!
Oh, by the way, I was downtown this afternoon
And I saw the most amazing sight.
Through the window of a small cafe
I saw a man and a woman holdin' hands,
And they looked so much in love it took my breath away
Can't you see it, don't you understand?

Well, I guess you had to be there,
Yeah, you really had to be there,
Some things you just can't explain
It's just not the same
I guess you had to be there!

I just stood there my heart poundin'
I couldn't move, all I could do was stare.
I kept rememberin' when we used to look like that
Two people with so much to share.
They were talkin' and they were laughin'
Just like we used to do every day,
And then he kissed her tenderly
What's the matter, you don't have much to say?

And as I watched you with your new love,
I haven't seen you that happy in years.
We've drifted so far apart and it's hard to admit it
But there's nothin' left for you here (so I guess)....

Well, I guess you had to be there,
Yeah,you really had to be there,
Some things you just can't explain
It's just not the same
I guess you had to be there!

Monday, August 19, 2013

ASOL #2 - 08/19/13

I have recently gotten into genealogy and have been putting together my family tree via an online service. I was surprised with the amount of information already online just by searching last names. Turns out portions of my tree are already online...

My favorite being the tree from my grandmother's side which shows my parents and sister, but not me. Sorry folks, I don't actually exist! This whole blog has been a figment of both our imaginations.

ha ha

My father had actually done some research years ago and thinks he discovered we are connect to the Grimm family line (as in the fairy tales). Pretty cool!  That would certainly explain things, wouldn't it!?  I continue my research and hope to be able to verify it at some point.

I'll keep you updated!


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Thursday, August 15, 2013

ASOL #1 - 08/15/13


I've realized...

... that I most enjoy blogs that give me often-funny updates on bloggers' personal lives.  No big surprise there, right?!

Silly me, that seems to be one area where I am lacking.  So after a previous post's positive response, I'm moving forward. If it brings me new readers, awesome. If not, but it makes even one of you laugh, it was worth it!

What to call it?

Sheila, over at Book Journey, calls her posts Morning Meanderings... But let's face it, a morning person I am not, so it would be Mostly late evenings, right before I fall into bed, Meanderings - and that's just too damn long!

And someone is already using Slice of Life...  I thought, "Well, I can't really steal it, can I? Someone's already using it..." But, it turns out that their posts are part of Two Writing Teachers writing meme - and, frankly, mine will not be "writing" but more likely babbling.

Then I looked up the phrase and, according to Wikipedia, a "Slice of life is a phrase describing the use of mundane realism depicting everyday experiences [,] in art and entertainment." [comma added by yours truly]  Kinda fitting, don't you think?!

So, sorry ladies, I'm kinda stealing it - though I will add an "A" to make it my own.

And, by the way, I find the abbreviation (asshole) hilarious... perfect, given my warped sense of humor (I found this absolutely hysterical, LOVE these ladies!).

So feel free to stop by and check out slices of (this asshole's) life...coming soon!

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Wednesday, August 14, 2013

With or Without You, A Memoir - Ruta

Domenica Ruta grew up in Danvers, Massachusetts, a working-class town north of Boston, in a home hoarded with trash that sat on the side of a polluted river and salt marsh.  Her mother, Kathi, was an unreliable woman who managed to turn a run-down taxi business into a million-dollar company and then lost it all to a drug addiction.  She often shared her drugs with Ruta (Nikki), kept her home from school to watch movies, and even tried to convince Ruta to mother a child as Kathi could no longer have children due to a hysterectomy.

Despite the chaos of her childhood, or perhaps because of it, and the seeming lack of books anywhere in their home, Ruta developed a love stories and escape. In With Or Without You, Ruta tells of her childhood struggle and the chaotic guilt and drug/alcohol-filled years that followed after she accepted that the only way out was to cut her mother out of her life completely. Despite all, her mother was a powerful source of love and inspiration in her life and the act of breaking free was a difficult one.

An unconventional coming-of-age story, Ruta's writing is raw and real. A good read, though not particularly exceptional. Living close to Danvers, I enjoyed the read for its threads to my own life though, and would definitely suggest it to others.

3/5- Good. Read it, have a good time and move on. Or not.

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Tuesday Tunes - 0813/13





A great lyric is like a great book...


Someone Like You
Adele, Artist
Adele and Dan Wilson, Writers




I heard that you're settled down
That you found a girl and you're married now
I heard that your dreams came true
Guess she gave you things I didn't give to you

Old friend, why are you so shy?
Ain't like you to hold back or hide from the light
I hate to turn up out of the blue, uninvited

But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it
I had hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded
That for me, it isn't over

Never mind, I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you, too
Don't forget me, I beg, I remember you said
Sometimes it lasts in love, but sometimes it hurts instead
Sometimes it lasts in love, but sometimes it hurts instead

You know how the time flies
Only yesterday was the time of our lives
We were born and raised in a summer haze
Bound by the surprise of our glory days

I hate to turn up out of the blue, uninvited
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it
I had hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded
That for me, it isn't over yet

Never mind, I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you, too
Don't forget me, I beg, I remember you said
Sometimes it lasts in love, but sometimes it hurts instead, yeah

Nothing compares, no worries or cares
Regrets and mistakes, they're memories made
Who would have known how bittersweet this would taste?

Never mind, I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you
Don't forget me, I beg, I remember you said
Sometimes it lasts in love, but sometimes it hurts instead
Never mind, I'll find someone like you

I wish nothing but the best for you, too
Don't forget me, I beg, I remember you said
Sometimes it lasts in love, but sometimes it hurts instead
Sometimes it lasts in love, but sometimes it hurts instead

Monday, August 12, 2013

Wednesday, August 07, 2013

My Lost and Found Life - Bowsher

Life is good for Ashley Mitchell. She is popular, the homecoming queen, dating an attractive (though uncaring) football player, and her mother pretty much buys her everything she wants. But Ashely's life is made up of lies, and is about to change dramatically.

Her mother, an accountant, is accused of embezzling funds from her employer and suddenly disappears. Ashley is seen as guilty through association. With her mother gone, and her father dead for many years, she is also suddenly alone. Payments on her home and credit cards go unpaid. She quickly realizes that she must figure out how to support herself (get a job), find somewhere to live (her mother's ex-boyfriend's camper with no water or electric), and find new friends as her summer trip and college plans have changed. She also realizes that perhaps there is something behind this "being thankful for what you have" stuff...

In My Lost and Found Life Melodie Bowsher shares a coming-of-age story like no other. An enjoyable read... Now, I've got to call my mother!

3/5- Good. Read it, have a good time and move on. Or not.




Tuesday, August 06, 2013

Teaser Tuesdays - 08/06/13



A great lyric is like a great book...




I Don't Have To Wonder
Garth Brooks, Artist
Taylor Dunn & Shawn Camp, Writers

 

Drove to the church
In my suit and tie
But I just couldn't bring myself
To go inside

So I sat alone
In my truck across the street
Watched that chauffeur smokin' cigarettes
By that long white limousine

I could just imagine
What was goin' on in there
Sunlight screamin' through the stained glass
And those flowers in her hair

And in less time than it takes a tear to fall
Those bells rang loud as thunder
As they opened up the doors
Now I don't have to wonder anymore

Laughin' and a cryin'
Tossin' that bouquet
And when you got in that limo
I drove off the other way

And I still don't know
Why things happened like they did
But I parked that old pickup
On that lonesome river bridge

I took your ring from my pocket
An d I held it one last time
Watched that diamond sparkle
I drew back and I let her fly

And in less time than it takes to tear to fall
Oh that old ring went under
Lord, and now it's gone for sure
No and I don't have to wonder anymore

Well the angels sang like thunder
As I felt myself go under
Now I don't have to wonder anymore 

Monday, August 05, 2013

Friday, August 02, 2013

July ReCap 2013...





July 2013 Update 

July was a calmer month than June was, but still busy so I didn't read quite as much as I had hoped.  I am behind on my 2013 reading goal, I better step it up! 

This month I read:
Total Read: 3
YTD:  24
Adult: 3
YA/children's: 0
Abandoned: 0

Including:

Dear Marcus - Jerry McGill
My Lost and Found Life -  Melodie Bowsher
Wild - Cheryl Stayed

Abandoned:
None
 

Favorite Book(s) of the Month:
Wild - Cheryl Strayed


Challenges Update:
Outdo Yourself Reading Challenge = 24 of 58
A-Z Book Challenge = 16 of 26
Library Reading Challenge = 23 of 36
E-Book Reading Challenge =  12 of 25
What's in a Name 6 Challenge = 5 of 6 


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Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Dear Marcus - McGill


Jerome "Jerry" McGill was barely a teenager in the 1980's when, walking through his Manhattan Lower East Side neighborhood, he heard a crack. The next thing he knew, he was laying on the pavement unable to move. In a heartbeat, his dreams of being an athlete or a performer were shattered. His life was changed forever.

Using "Marcus" as a nickname for his assailant (who was never caught or changed), McGill speaks as if to a friend, explaining what occurred that fall evening from his own point of view.  He expresses his guilt at having manipulated his single mother to allow him to stay out far beyond reasonable hours, his anger at having to spend months in the hospital missing out on his "normal" life, and the frustration of how his paralysis effected his own and his family's future.

With brutal honesty and grace, Dear Marcus shares McGill's road to acceptance, forgiveness and ultimately a future that is made brighter by the hardships he has endured. Well written and touching, this memoir is worth a read.



3/5- Good. Read it, have a good time and move on. Or not.

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Tuesday Tunes - 07/30/13



A great lyric is like a great book...



You're So Vain
Carly Simon, Artist & Writer





You walked into the party
Like you were walking onto a yacht
Your hat strategically dipped below one eye
Your scarf it was apricot

You had one eye in the mirror
As you watched yourself gavotte
And all the girls dreamed
That they'd be your partner
They'd be your partner, and....

You're so vain
You probably think this song is about you
You're so vain
I'll bet you think this song is about you
Don't you? Don't you?
You had me several years ago
When I was still quite naive
Well you said that we made such a pretty pair
And that you would never leave

But you gave away the things you loved
And one of them was me
I had some dreams
They were clouds in my coffee
Clouds in my coffee and....

You're so vain
You probably think this song is about you
You're so vain
I'll bet you think this song is about you
Don't you? Don't you?
Well I hear you went up to Saratoga
And your horse naturally won
Then you flew your Lear jet up to Nova Scotia
To see the total eclipse of the sun

Well, you're where you should be all of the time
And when you're not you're with
Some underworld spy
Or the wife of a close friend
Wife of a close friend, and....

You're so vain
You probably think this song is about you
You're so vain
I'll bet you think this song is about you
Don't you? Don't you?

Monday, July 29, 2013

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Heads in Beds - Tomsky


Armed with a philosophy degree and not much more, Jacob Tomsky grabs the first job he can find after college. He quickly finds himself on a career path he never anticipated or wanted.

Accepting a position as a valet at a local hotel, he finds he can actually make good money while having fun. Through the years, he moves up in the ranks to supervising the housekeeping department, manning the front desk, and convinces a manage that he himself is management material.  But hospitality never his goal, he never seems to take the job seriously.  He even makes a move from New Orleans to New York to try to break the cycle, but eventually finds himself returning to the field to secure a regular paycheck.

Eventually, , he seems to just accept his fate and utilize the system to benefit himself. He steals items from minibars and supply cabinets, works the customers to ensure maximum tips and "off-the-clock" gifts, and eventually reaps the ultimate benefit, this memoir Heads in Beds: A Reckless Memoir of Hotels, Hustles, and So-Called Hospitality.

Entertaining, funny, and more than a bit cheeky, Tomsky's book is a good read.


3/5- Good. Read it, have a good time and move on. Or not.

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Tuesday Tunes - 07/22/13


A great lyric is like a great book...



We Didn't Start The Fire
Billy Joel, Artist & Writer



Harry Truman, Doris Day, Red China, Johnnie Ray
South Pacific, Walter Winchell, Joe DiMaggio

Joe McCarthy, Richard Nixon, Studebaker, television
North Korea, South Korea, Marilyn Monroe

Rosenbergs, H-bomb, Sugar Ray, Panmunjom
Brando, "The King and I" and "The Catcher in the Rye"

Eisenhower, vaccine, England's got a new queen
Marciano, Liberace, Santayana goodbye

CHORUS:
We didn't start the fire
It was always burning
Since the world's been turning
We didn't start the fire
No we didn't light it
But we tried to fight it

Joseph Stalin, Malenkov, Nasser and Prokofiev
Rockefeller, Campanella, Communist Bloc

Roy cohn, Juan Peron, Toscanini, dacron
Dien Bien Phu falls, "Rock Around the Clock"

Einstein, James Dean, Brooklyn's got a winning team
Davy Crockett, Peter Pan, Elvis Presley, Disneyland

Bardot, Budapest, Alabama, Krushchev
Princess Grace, "Peyton Place", trouble in the Suez

CHORUS:
We didn't start the fire
It was always burning
Since the world's been turning
We didn't start the fire
No we didn't light it
But we tried to fight it

Little Rock, Pasternak, Mickey Mantle, Kerouac
Sputnik, Chou En-Lai, "Bridge on the River Kwai"

Lebanon, Charles de Gaulle, California baseball
Starkweather, homicide, children of thalidomide

Buddy Holly, "Ben Hur", space monkey, Mafia
Hula hoops, Castro, Edsel is a no go

U-2, Syngman Rhee, payola and Kennedy
Chubby Checker, "Psycho", Belgians in the Congo

CHORUS:
We didn't start the fire
It was always burning
Since the world's been turning
We didn't start the fire
No we didn't light it
But we tried to fight it

Hemingway, Eichmann, "Stranger in a Strange Land"
Dylan, Berlin, Bay of Pigs invasion

"Lawrence of Arabia", British Beatlemania
Ole Miss, John Glenn, Liston beats Patterson

Pope Paul, Malcolm X, British politician sex
JFK, blown away, what else do I have to say

CHORUS:
We didn't start the fire
It was always burning
Since the world's been turning
We didn't start the fire
No we didn't light it
But we tried to fight it

Birth control, Ho Chi Minh, Richard Nixon, back again
Moonshot, Woodstock, Watergate, punk rock
Begin, Reagan, Palestine, terror on the airline
Ayatollah's in Iran, Russians in Afghanistan

"Wheel of Fortune", Sally Ride, heavy metal suicide,
Foreign debts, homeless vets, AIDS, crack, Bernie Goetz
Hypodermics on the shores, China's under martial law
Rock and roller cola wars, I can't take it anymore

CHORUS:
We didn't start the fire
It was always burning
Since the world's been turning
We didn't start the fire
No we didn't light it
But we tried to fight it...

We didn't start the fire
But when we are gone
Will it still burn on, and on, and on, and on...